Reaching for the Light


Getting Help For An Adult Other Than Yourself

You may be in a position to make choices in your own life and in the lives of your children, but what happens when you believe another adult needs help? The person may be your spouse, a parent, another relative or a friend. He or she may want help, but not know how to go about getting it. In that case, this guide will assist you in finding resources to recommend.

If, however, you are seeking relief for an adult who does not believe he or she needs assistance, the situation is more complex. First, you must understand that no matter how concerned you may be, you are not totally responsible for another adult who does not want to receive help.

While trying to deal with and understand another person who demonstrates symptoms of a mental illness, you may wish to contact your local Mental Health Association or chapter of the Alliance for the Mentally Ill.

These organizations offer practical information and emotional support.

In addition, the Alliance can provide a variety of books and pamphlets which share information and ideas on how to assist a mentally ill relative and survive the experience yourself.